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male
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36-40,
anonymous
writes: Im 20 yrs old guy.. i not yet experiment masturbation.. my penis size is 15cm when(erect) my friends said it is very big size.. It will affect my future wife..and i plan now to do masturbation.. does it good for health or not.. and tell me how many times can we do for a day. please help me.. thank you..
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reader, aunty_rach +, writes (3 December 2008):
lol your friends are obviously just very jealous. it won't effect your future wife at all. it will just make her very happy. your friends need a rain check!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2008): Whack away my friend!As for penis size: It's not an issue. A woman's vagina can relax to accommodate any size. The passage is ultimately designed for a newborn to pass so it's not an obstacle. 15 cm falls within the average range of penis sizes but that doesn't matter. What matters is your partner. Always take things slow and respect the pace she sets if she's finding it painful. Also, try different sizes of condom out so that you get the right fit with respects to your girth. Remember that the "normal" size of a condom is different in different counties so read the back for the mm diameter so that you know your size.As for masturbation: Whack away! Just don't "plan" it. Have fun man! Relax! If this is new for you, there are some things you should consider:- Lubrication is important- Note what you like and what you don't like otherwise you'll never be able to communicate it to your partner- Don't get addicted to it. You going to get a rush to your brain just like drugs and you can get addicted to it just like anything else! Masturbation is to release sexual tension it IS NOT just to "get a hit" as you would "hit a bong" or "have a smoke". Addictions can affect your daily life and can become impairments to success- Masturbation has been shown to reduce rates prostate cancer but you should take these findings with a grain of salt- Too much masturbation can desensitize the head of the penis who's going "Whoa! Whoa! Easy buddy, this is too much" which means you'll feel less pleasure- Make sure you clean your penis properly when in the shower if you previously "made a mess" - Keep it cleanHow many times a day? I personally don't masturbate every day so it's a hard question to answer. It's an absolutely valid question to ask for someone who's starting out but I simply don't remember. Just have fun and be weary of developing an addiction. If it starts affecting your life (e.g. you're late because you couldn't help but masturbate) try to throttle down your sex drive and fuel yourself with other passions in life.Have fun!
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reader, just a man +, writes (3 December 2008):
yes, it is healthy,(DO NOT GET seen by your mom) dont worry, you cannot break it('im 40, and i have lots of kids).....15 cm?.....(i am pointing, and laughing) :) no i'm not, i am joking you will be fine, dont worry so much...however, that being said, depending what country you may live in, monkey spankin' may be a crime, that involves punishment...so please be careful.
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