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writes:I am 29 year old i have been single for 5 years now . Girls dont like me because i am stocky and they say that i am ugly . Is masturbateing nasty? because i do it every night . I started doing it when i was younger. Don't girls masturbate too? Some girls say masturbating is nasty? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank u eveybody now i dont feel like i am doing something wrong
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (8 October 2011):
 It's your body use it as you see fit..As far as women go who knows/ I've known omen that have never even had an orgasm and could care less.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2011): You have been around the wrong girls, mate. Nothing wrong with stocky. DEFINITELY nothing wrong with masturbation as long as it doesnt interfere with a normal life or normal relationships. And girls who call you ugly are....well, ugly.
In my experience with women, which has been a fair number, about half masturbate openly, another quarter I suspected masturbated discreetly, and a few, including my ex wife, never masturbated. Masturbation is a healthy part of a normal sexuality. Nothing to be ashamed of, although it is a private matter.
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reader, hannah76  +, writes (8 October 2011):
 Yes, some girls do masturbate. And for you, it is your choice and there is nothing nasty about it. You enjoy and have pleasure. Don't listen to what these girls say. Start meeting other more mature girls.
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reader, Xearo  +, writes (8 October 2011):
Some girls masturbate , some don't.
Some guys masturbate, some don't.
Whether you masturbate or not is your business, they don't need to know it.
Girls look for confident and funny guys. If you are worried about you appearance, doing something like working out or dressing better would make you look better, yes, but more importantly it would give u that confidence you need. Don't worry the small things like masturbation when it comes to trying to hook up with a girl.
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reader, kinkykel +, writes (8 October 2011):
 the others are right some girls think they are women but haven't a clue what a real woman is all about. Don't look when it's time it's time in the mean time have fun. As far as masturbating everyone does it and if they don't then they are missing out we all need to release some times and i honestly have to say i enjoy masturbating with and without my man and he is the same it can be quite a turn on. But telling some1 you just met can be rather shocking wether you like to are not and it will always kill what if any thing were going to happen any1 to tell you you're ugly etc. well just look at them SMILE and say don't be picky cause i wasn't lol. Things will get better. Masturbating is not NASTY!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2011): The women who say that, I'm guessing what they is mean they find it disgusting that their boyfriend masturbates to women other than them. (And if you tell them you masturbate every night, they will automatically assume it won't always be about them.) Anyway, if their boyfriends were only masturbating to them alone and they knew that for sure, I don't think they would find it so disgusting. You shouldn't worry what those women say, though, because they have to be pretty insecure to worry about what their man masturbates to. And trust me, you don't want to be in a relationship with someone who is overly-insecure. I'm not saying they have to be 100% confident all the time, because everyone has moments of weakness, but if they're worried about your masturbation habits, well then they'd have to be pretty insecure. And yes, most women masturbate but not all.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (8 October 2011):
 At 29 years old, you shouldn't care what other women say about masturbating. Nor should you be divulging that info to potential mates. That isn't attractive.Whether they want to admit it or not, women masturbate. Some don't have to if they have a partner. It's something that's not open for discussion and what you do sexually (solo) behind close doors is your own business. As far as why you have been single for 5 years, I don't have a clue why. I don't know you personally so it is hard to say what you're doing wrong. Ugly and stocky aren't much to go on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (8 October 2011):
 Girls who can't keep their mouths shut are not worth your time. You said girls don't like you, to your face? How many (for you to post this generalizing question)? In a joking manner? Why do you have to tell random girls you masturbate every day? This is private conversation that you only share with women you emotionally trust.
I answered a question here because I was telling people my ex does not ever masturbate and the agony uncles were calling me a liar. I think blue balls are nastier.
You are 29. You need a woman, not a juvenile girl who is ignorant about sexuality.
You said you are single because (1) you are stocky (2) girls think you are ugly (3) because you masturbate every day.
There is nothing wrong with being stocky. The man is supposed to be bigger. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Men and women masturbate. They masturbate when they are single, when the are happily married, even when they have affair partners they still masturbate.
You are single because you are wasting time talking to girls, not women.
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