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writes:Is make up sex healthy? I got into a argument with my girlfriend 2 weeks, ago. Up until earlier on today, she wouldn't speak to me unless I asked her a question like if anyone called or if she needed help with anything. We then made up because I couldn't bare the tension between us. This was the first "fight" we have had so I'm not sure if it's a healthy cycle. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI didn't mind it, I just wasn't expecting it. We're back to normal now. It's just a odd situation.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2011): I've "made up" with people to. I think it's pretty normal to have sex colored by emotions besides "love". You can have jealous sex, frustrated sex, angry sex, and apparently even remorseful sex. It keeps it interesting.
That's the nice thing about being in a relationship...you get to express yourself with your body, rather than chew through things.
But, if sex starts being a routine solution to problems and a substitution for talking, then it could be an issue and you may start to resent each other.
It sounds like you didn't mind the sex, but you aren't really sure where you stand with her? Ask her why she's upset? Good luck.
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