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writes:i was with my ex for 4 yrs. in this time we split up twice before the final split. i then went travelling for a yr and am still away now (only for a week).last night i rang him (drunkenly, although i meant what i said but had been restrainign myself thus far) and told him that i still love him and he said he still loves me and hes still single. weve arranged to meet up when im back to discuss getting back together. the only thing is im confused and scared. ive told myself that were not good together but we still love each other sooo much. he means evrything to me. we broke up 14months ago and i feel that if we still feel as strongly about each other as we did efore then surely we should be together. i ended it as it was getting tedious, we NEVER did anything together, he never took me out and i felt i was giving aqnd he was taking. dont get me wrong he made me feel loved and special etc but i was getting cabin fever just stuck in ALL thre time. we didnt live together. can anyone help me out on this. ni mean is love really enough. oh thats another thing, when i was younger i was in a violent relationship and have sinced vowed that to love someone isnt enough, should i drop this feeling, i think its jsut bitterness to what happened to me.thanks
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (8 February 2008):
 If you have love, it would be enough but I don't think your love for him is deep enough to sacrifice your wants for his wants.Your own wants are still paramount to you.
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