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female
age
36-40,
*eminChanel
writes:I happen to have a wandering eye. I don't cheat but I do look at a girl if she's my type. My type is a girl who is thick in all the right places. Mostly in the legs and ass. My girlfriend is definitely my type. If I'm talking to another girl that just so happens to be my type, I may flirt a little too. Just innocent. No exchange of numbers, no meeting up, and no hooking up. I mean I guess I wouldn't want someone doing that to me. To tell u the truth I never let stuff like that get to me. I guess the girls that I've been with, I never got so attached where I bug out or get butt hurt because of it. It's never happened to me, well not that i know of. At least, I never witnessed it happening to me. What do you think?
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (6 June 2011):
 I think it's almost natural to notice atrractive people. However, there is a time and place for it all. If you sit and oogle a good looking person right in front of your GF, then I think it's crude and rude.
Flirting can easily be mistaken for "hitting on". So with flirting you always have to be mindful of what you are doing.
I have been married for close to 14 year and YES, I still notice a good looking guy, but I am also willing to bet you wouldn't notice me checking "him" out. I don't flirt, but I am polite and generally pretty "sunny" towards people.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2011): Flirting is a way of telling others that we are interested and available. Unless you're both of those things, everyone (incluing your girlfriend)is better off with a more formal approach.
Often times flirting is done as a joke, but it creates confusion in the mind of the person being flirted with. Especially if one party is attracted to the other.
It blurs the lines and leads people into temptation.
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reader, dmartin89  +, writes (6 June 2011):
 I think you will get varied answers for this question.
My partner and I and very comfortable with eachother, so we always point out who we find attractive and I dont have a problem with him flirting . Its human nature to look at someone you find sexually attractive, as long as it isnt staring or leering, which is disrespectful.
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reader, zebralove  +, writes (6 June 2011):
 I don't think its wrong to look at other ppl who you find attractive, I mean who doesn't? If you'r girlfriend feels insicure about it it may be because of the flirting? But other then that I don't see a probleme with finding other ppl atractive.
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