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writes:I have a male friend who's living far with his family from me. He's supposed to be on vacation with his family.Well, I received a little note today checking in on me, wanting to say hello and trusting I'm OK.I met him in person a year and a half ago and kept in touch since by email. I've never been introduced his wife. We are friends, but we do care for each others lives and he says enjoys our friendship and communications.Now, I thought if he's back to work, so I wish they're OK but he hasn't told me anything about that yet.Is it wrong that he as a friend check out on me if it's true that he still on vacation or not? Why would he do that? is that a common thing to do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2008): Well if I am on a vacation with my family I wouldn't be thinking about anyone else.Mamma Mia is right.Something just doesn't strike right.Its always complicated when the guy is married.Slowly start distancing yourself from him.Don't reply often.Make sure he understands that you would never have an affair with a married man.Drop hints like "There's this married guy who hit on my friend.What an ass!"That should put the point across.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2008): Sounds a little strange and suspicious to me. I think you need to be careful. As your "friend" might have alterior motives. Don't know, but just be careful. Something does not sound right.
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