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Is it wrong for me to like this other guy just a little when I have a boyfriend?

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Question - (1 July 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 1 July 2010)
A female Trinidad and Tobago age 26-29, *.j writes:

there is this guy i've known him since 8th grade and we're in the 11th grade now.i always kinda liked him but were just friends. hes been saying stuff like he doesnt like eclipse(the movie) but hed go see it if i was going ,and im the only girl he can talk to for hours on the phone and not realise how long its been, telling me stuff like how he thinks a boy should treat a girl like me ,and that my boyfriend doesnt treat me that way,and hes right,little stuff like that. does he like me? is it wrong for me to still like him a little even though i have a boyfriend?

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A female reader, m.j Trinidad and Tobago +, writes (1 July 2010):

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m.j agony aunti love my boyfriend and im attracted to him , hes really sweet but i also like this other guy for totally different reasons to why i love my boyfriend.and im also attracted to this other guy.i find myself thinking about what it would be like to make out with him.is this wrong?

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A female reader, annomus28 United Kingdom +, writes (1 July 2010):

hey sweety first off it isnt wrong for you to like him. i have been in this situation and you have to take it on your feelings do you think that you still love your boyfriend if the answer is yes then the chances are you just like talking to another male that isnt your boyfriend and everyone gets annoyed with them sometimes if the answe is no then maybe there could be something there hope that helps

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A female reader, kahlan United Kingdom +, writes (1 July 2010):

kahlan agony auntThere is nothing wrong with being attracted to someone else even if you are in a relationship.It's natural. It's what you do that counts. If you aren't happy in your relationship with your boyfriend, you should finish with him, even if you don't end up going out with this other guy you like. If you do want to go out with this new guy, when you end it you are free to see who you like.

Good Luck

Kahlan.

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