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writes:Im with this guy almost 6 months.First 3 we were almost every day together,but now as he works abroad we are not. Anyway he claims To LOVE ME, and constantly was telling that to me.I do love him for sure, but there are number of things that make me confused. We met at the weekend,I was going for an inertview for a job(he knows im without at this moment and that Im not a big money -saver or keeper)so i was on very low funds.I was pretty drunk the night and I didnt pay attention on the money i spent for drinks, so the morning i was short for bus. I asked him to borrow me some and he did,and after the interview(which i expected to last longer) we met for a dinner.I was dead hungry,but without any money left.He ordered for himself a beef and didnt even cared to ask me if i want to eat something. I was annoyed,stand up and left.Im curious What you think is this behaviuor about? He had money I know and he conciensly denied to ask me that question. Is it worth to spend time after this with a person like him!!!?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionFirstly Richard, He wanted to go clubbing and to drink not me. I suggested to leave on several times and he insisted. Secondly, I dont know what one is supposed to do , when the other party is not willing to pay for drinks.Normally i did it.So thats not the case , since as said I had interview the other day and was not for party at all. Just not to be misunderstood that I was not the one who insisted on drinking and partying.
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reader, Richard_EMids  +, writes (3 December 2007):
 He probably thought if you can spend money on alcohol ahead of bus fares and food then you are getting your priorities wrong. Maybe this was his way of getting you to change your ways.
So he has probably gone away and asked "Is it worth to spend time after this with a person like her!!!?"
And you have gone away and asked,"Is it worth to spend time after this with a person like him!!!?"
Take care
Richard
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