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Is it worth it to give him a second chance?

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Question - (13 November 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 13 November 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

advice please?

Well, my times running out. This lad is ' totally crazy ' about me, he tells me he loves me almost everyday. He is my ex-boyfriend, and he was the one who ended our relationship, then when he asked for me back i said no, even though i really wanted to say yes, i cryed when he dumped me, well he never really dumped me we sorta agreed that it wasnt working and that it would be for the best to just be mates but he said it all i just agreed and i didnt really think that. i cryed most of the day, then at the night i took my mind off it and went out with my mates then when i got in and signed in on msn, he told me he made a mistake, but i didnt want to take him back in case he hurt me again.

and over these 2 months we have been apart i have never really gotten over him. I love being around him, love talking to him, when he isnt there i miss him, i smile when i hear his name, i smile when i see his msn name pop up, he makes me laugh even when i dont feel like laughing, he cheers me up when i am down, some times all i want to do is hug HIM and not let go, when i dont see him i feel sad and when we dont speak i feel lonely.

But like i said my time is running out, because come on seriously he has liked me for 7 months and in them 7 months we had a 2 month relation ship, but he is going to give up soon as i keep saying no to him, and i only say no because i dont no whether its worth giving him a 2nd chance, and i dont know wether i really am in love with him i know i do feel something but how do you know whether you truly are in love with some one and i need to figure this out fast as my time is running out.

How do i figure out if i really am in love with this guy and should i give him a second chance??????

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2008):

Say yes!! You like him and he likes you. Just talk to him about u feelin' worried about getting hurt again. I'm sure he'll understand, ur lover is also a best friend.

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