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anonymous
writes:Im a guy and have had a couple of girlfriends and quite a few girls crushing on me. But there is this girl, a few years back we used to hate each others guts. But for about a year now we have been really good friends. I feel like i can trust her with anything. (weird right?). For the past few weeks she has been flirting with me constantly and we have been have been having quite random convos like "i want to kiss you and you're sexy". Basically im picking up all the signs that she likes me ( i think i like her too. But the problem is, she told me a couple of days ago that she had fallen totally in love with another guy but becuase he treats her really badly she is trying to get over him (im not sure if shes trying to make me jealous or is playing hard to get) and a week ago she even went out with one of my friends that totally likes her. ( is she trying to make me jealous) but she flirts with me a lot infront of him which is confusing too. AND one of her friends happens to have a crush on me!. I am so confused of what to do, becuase whenever i ask her "do you like me" its either a "no" or "maybe". So how do i find out if she likes me and maybe ask her out, without losing a friend and upsetting her friend!? Sometimes i want to give up becuase im so confused!!!
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reader, Jendorset +, writes (15 November 2008):
Perhaps you need to tell her you like her first. Tell her if she liked you then you would ask her out, if she doesnt give you a proper answer after that then i would move on. If you like her friend then you could ask her out. If you dont like her then just make sure you dont give her any reasons to like you more than she does. Some times i flirt with mates and its only a joke so i would tell her how you feel then ask her. If she is not interested then move on and find someone else. Message me if you need any more advice x
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