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writes:is it true that some woman dont have any sexual feelings?? as some men off coursemy wife doesn't like sex she is sexually dead. i am afraid i couldn't find a better word. the problem is that i love her,i am not naif and i know how to turn on a lady i mean most of the ladies !! i tried every thing with her but no useas i said she has no sexual feelings at all though she used to ask for sex because she wants to insure that i dont sleep with another women, and when ever i am ready she simply backs me off. and rarely ever let us have sexafter all of those sexual trouble with her now, i litterly hate having intercourse with her. it is simply BOARING, and has never been fun not even once !!i faced and told her that you never liked sex and i feel having sex with you is like having sex with an ice log, she didnt realy mind and claimed that i am the one who is cold!!,but now she doesn't ask for sex because i believe now she knows that i know her truth. i do masterbate allot,especailly that many if not most of the women that i see tease me and flirt with me and i haven't ever and dont want to cheat on her ,and hopefully i well not !! but i am a normal human and i need sexfianlly is it true that 45% percent of women dont have any sexual feelings and just pretend and act to keep their men arround " i wish my wife has at least acted that she likes sex"and women if you were in my place what would you do and what is your advice to me
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2009): Maybe there is more to it. Do I hate sex - NO.. However I have come to a point in my life I can not stand my husband. I dread sex with him it has never been anything more than a quickie right now the quicker the better. Until I am ready to change my life.
Yes I have talk to him no changes or temporary change just to many years,25- with no emotional conection with him or from him.
Just something for you to think about
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (2 April 2009):
 In my opinion, your figures are bogus. Most every woman treasures and appreciates sex, or better stated, the art of making love. All simply need a loving and knowledgeable partner who sill has energy and capability.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (1 April 2009):
Well she is lucky to have a husband who loves her so much.
Good luck with the therapist.
Try Relate marriage counselling. They may be able to advise.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questiongina and emily thanks for the answers
and about your succestion dear emily, i realy love and i cant leave her she is my life,
i well try to find some sex therapist and please pray for me
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (1 April 2009):
The 45% is wrong, you cannot seriously believe that half the female population of the world have no feelings that way. The human race would have died out!
I'm not sure what the heck is going on with her but she is certainly not normal. And it's very selfish of her to say that she wants you around as a partner and room mate but with all the restrictions of marriage.
I think you need to take her to counselling or sit her down and ask calmly what you are going to do. If she wants to keep her marriage then she HAS to compromise somewhere.
And ask her if she wants to stay with you because you are good friends and she is happy with the routine and living arrangement and way of life... Or does she actually love you?
Big questions have to be asked. If it was just that she had gone off sex then it would be easier, but the fact that she said she lied to you to trap you in this marriage and has never wanted you sexually is VERY worrying.
If she doesn't like sex then there may be nothing you can do to change that and you may have to either get her blessing to have a very discrete liaison on the side, or you have to ask yourself if she is worth sticking around for.
Good Luck!! xx
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