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26-29,
*Tzimisce.
writes:Afew years ago I started going to the gym and use to see this guy there who use to smile and look at me all the time, but at that stage of my life I was not looking for a relationship and my mental state and esteem was pretty crap. Silly me thought he was judging me and laughing at me but I realised he was actually interested in me this whole time. I still go to the gym up to this day and I only see him maybe once or twice a year (he goes at a different time I'm assuming). Every time I do see him he does look at me but when we get closer he looks down and doesn't smile at me anymore.I realise that it could be too late but I sense from the way he looks at me he may still like me or interested in me but is scared of rejection, so its up to me to put myself on that line. Which I'm fine with, my friend sees him at a particular time so I'm going with her to sus him out and see how he reacts to me.I'm planning on saying "hey" to him if I walk past him one time or smile if he looks at me. I've seen him on facebook as well so theres that option of adding him but would be abit creepy if I did add him without talking to him!It's been awhile since Ive seen him so I'm not sure if its too late to return the same interest back? I feel like I'm being silly for even bothering since its been nearly a year, my friends say I might have a chance but I want an honest opinion! Thanks!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2017): It is a good idea to plan this “accidental “ meeting. Smile when you say “hey”.
If the friend you are with is able to start even a one sentence conversation, she may find the chance to bring you into the conversation.
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reader, Fatherly Advice  +, writes (17 August 2017):
 It might be a good idea to check if he is in a relationship. If he keeps his facebook up to date you could find out there. If he is like me he hasn't posted in 2 years and it would be worthless.
It is good to see that your confidence has grown and you are ready to put yourself out there.
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