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writes:I have this guy friend, we was dating when we was in high school but somehow we lost touch with each other but now we have been talking for about 4 years, he had a girlfriend and i was still with my boyfriend but now I'm single we have been seeing each other, he told me that he wanted to be with me but then i got pregnant by him but i lost it, then we stopped talking then started back again, then he decided to try and have child again he asked me what i wanted just a child or relationship or both i told him just a child but i lied, i want both! now he's like not talking to me every other week. Should I tell him the truth? I think i hurt him but i was afraid that he dont want both so i lied. what should i do Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2010): to anonymous answer i dont think you read it right i do want him i was just afraid that he dont want what i want even though he asked the question i was afraid of getting hurt so thats way i answered like that i have a son with the my first boyfriend so i do know that it hurts the child that why i asked should i tell how fell before i have a child with to know that we fell the same way about each other because i was straight out of high school when i had my son
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2010): When we play games with people someone always gets hurt, and generally it is us, children want both their parent didn't you and a child have never keep a couple together so whatever you do get pregnant again. Maybe he is afraid that you just want he sperm and not his heart and based on what you say that is all you wanted, what a hurtful thing to say even if you where joking.
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reader, unique-angel  +, writes (5 March 2010):
Tel him the truth, seems he was just as hurt as you are now. He stil likes you i think. Best you can do it say al your feeligns straight out, what u want, what u expect, mention u only want him if he's single
Good luck sorry about you loosing your baby.
Could you please answer my quesiton? thanks x
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