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writes:Hi everyone. You've probably noticed that I've posted up a few questions regarding verious things in the LD relationship I'm currently in. I do love her (Lets call her Claire) very much and I feel like she could be the one. I've been looking for her for years and finally found her and really want this relationship to work.Right. Back on subject.It will be our 1 month anniversary on Bank Holiday weekend and we were planning on meeting up and spending the w/end together. Well, something has come up - this household is taking a trip to Norfolk for the weekend. When I heard this I first thought along the lines of "Damn!! I won't be seeing her (Claire) on our anniversary."But as this thought ran over and over in my mind I suddenly had the thought of asking "Claire" along to come with us. I'm planning to call her tomorrow then I'll ask then if she'd like to spend the weekend together.But there's one thing that's bugging me about this question: Is it too early to ask such a question? Then there are the issues with my mum. I can almost quote my mum exactly on this. So here goes:Yes: "Yes she can come along but use protection/someone will have to crash on the sofa" (I'll be that someone. "Claire" can have the whole bed to herself.No: "She can't come along because this is a family weekend away/we're only taking the car, there won't be enough room." Well, here's a dilemma for her. If her fella/boyfriend can come along, thus counting him as "Family" then that would make my girlfriend "Family". Or there's the room/space issue: My mums fella has a van, surely it won't be too bad to take that along and he travels in that with my little brother. So, as I mentioned above: Is it a little too early to be asking such a question?Thanks,The Pete
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reader, Peterk5699 +, writes (11 August 2007):
Peterk5699 is verified as being by the original poster of the question I was being on the joking side when I "Quoted" my mum and also I wouldn't go out with anyone younger than 16. She's my age thanks. What made you think that?
And I'm not "Desperate" either.
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reader, flower girl +, writes (10 August 2007):
 If you feel you are ready for her to come with you then no it's not to early.
I would suggest talking it over with your mum first and see how she feels about it, if she is ok then ask her what have you got to lose.
If she is not ready i'm sure she will let you know, but you will not know until you ask.
Take care.xx.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2007): Your g.f. is definetly not considered your family. You've known her for 1 month, in a LD relationship at that. How can you say she's the one? You sound kind of desperate here to be honest. How many times have you seen her? Has your mom even met her? I doubt your mom considers her family. It's also kind of disturbing that you think your mom would say "yes she can come along, but use some protection." Why is that her place to tell you to use protection, you're an adult. Why don't you move out of the house & get your own place so you can have her over whenever you like? I also get the feeling that "Claire" is 16 years old or younger. Am I right?
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