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*ames088
writes:hi all, im new to this whole thing but am hoping someone can help me find some answers.I am 19 and have a 9 and a half inch penis.i feel it is too large as many girls are unable to have sex with me or tell me it hurts. Am i really too big and is there anything i can do to fix my problem??Thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2011): length is a problem. You won't get all the way in and you need to pay attention to not bottom out too often which can get quite painful for a woman.
Your girth is not going to be a problem. That's ridiculous.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (24 August 2011):
 You need to get a long term girlfriend. Your penis is above average, which will make it difficult for most women to have sex with you. It's not the length that is the problem (although you won't ever be able to fit all the length inside of a woman), it's the girth. I am guessing your girth is also above average. It hurts the ladies for the same reason it hurts for virgins to have sex the first time. The vagina CAN stretch out to accommodate you, if the woman has a suitable vagina. But it takes time and patience. If you find a girlfriend, it could take up to a year or more before you and her will be able to have regular sex without her being in pain. She will have to love you to want to go through with it, and you will have to love her to be able to be in such a relationship.
So my advice to you is to not have one night stands, but try to find a good girlfriend who will love you and be patient and willing to go through the pain while customizing herself to fit you.
It can work. But you need to be patient and loving towards a long term partner.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2011): THat is indeed very big. "too" big is relative. THere are many women out there who would be ecstatic with that size. Hell, I'm kinda jealous. But I would agree that for most women, anything over 8 inches is just getting to the point of concern.What can you do? nothing, except to be patient, do a lot of foreplay to get them aroused, use lube and GO SLOW. I think many women can get used to girth more than length, so dont expect to bury it in every girl you meet.It's good you dont seem arrogant. I've heard most guys with big ones are big dicks because they think size is everything. It helps, but it aint everything.If girth is an issue, you can make it a tad smaller by using regular sized condoms or masturbating before hand. If you walk in to the bedroom with a raging, 5 day load and pulsing erection, it will be a deadly weapon. Save that for the size queens you run into.
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reader, Cupid_or_Stupid  +, writes (24 August 2011):
 Some guys would dream of having one that big. But they do tend to forget that us girls aren't superwomen and we have our limits as you've discovered.The porn industry especially displays men with larger penises as being more superior and more enjoyable than a man with an average size. But what most people don't realise is that female pornstars are often not allowed to show signs of pain or discomfort they are paid to make it look like they're enjoying themselves even when they're not. The more sex you have the more you can take also, so if you think about the amount of videos and men that woman has done and had sex with then it's not surprising they make big guys look more fun.HOWEVER to answer your question, you're not TOO big although you are on the big side and there isn't really anything you can do to fix your size (obviously) BUT if you were to have a long term girlfriend then the more sex you were to have with her the more used to your size she would get so it's all a matter of time and patience. In terms of one night stands I guess you'd just have to make sure you use lots of foreplay and maybe lube. Sorry I can't be of more help. I'm not a man and I've never really had a size problem with a guy before.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2011): Some girls maybe enjoy having sex with a large dick dude like you.
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