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female
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anonymous
writes:I have met someone and our "relationship" has been going on for about 2 years.. He knows I have always wanted to be with him.. And the signals (not always the words) showed, in time he would want the same. was great at first.. Still is.. Only there is too much in my mind not to let myself believe I wont be hurt.. Im often a bit negative and dont have much confidence within myself.. And because he hasnt made it official I feel very unwanted. How can I try take this all in a different approach? I feel I have been a bit needy at times. But mostly when I feel he has not given enough heart or time to me.. I feel I deserve an explanation. You either want to be with me or you dont. He says he doesnt know.. How do you not know? After so long.. Ive said I would rather know so I can work my life out and know what direction to take. And that I just want to be happy not always waiting. I said I would understand if he werent ready.. It would hurt but we could at least work on the friendship before it was damaged.. Sometimes I think its going nowhere but he always leaves me wondering. I dont want to be so attached.. I want some control over this situation. What are some ways I can change a few things so I leave him realising what he has to lose.. Cos perhaps ive made everything to easy for him..
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