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Is it time for me to go?

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Question - (11 June 2017) 2 Answers - (Newest, 19 June 2017)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I think its time for me to move on but I don't know why. It’s hard for me. It’s like I need an approval. I don't know when the last time I kissed my boyfriend was. How can you have sex and not kiss?

I have noticed a pattern firstly I have been with him for 10 years and after 4 we had a daughter and we have lived with his mom for the next 4 years. Its just annoying living with his mom but regardless he should be affectionate. He does not try to be affectionate. After getting rejected I don’t try anymore. We do have sex once a week but the last few times it’s not doing it for me. It makes me sad for my daughter but I'm truly not happy. Why try for love if it's not there?

The reason why I'm writing this is because I'm scared to leave since I have tried once and his mom blew a fit that I used her and what not, but she sees how her son is with me.

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (19 June 2017):

aunt honesty agony auntHave you anywhere else to go? Have you friends and family around you? Honey if you are not happy your daughter will pick up on that. Yes it is tough parents splitting up, but sometimes it is for the best. As long as she still has both parents it shouldn't matter if you are split up. Talk to your partner about how you feel and try communicating with him before you decide to leave.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2017):

Why do you live with his mum ?? Move out as a family living with a parent can put massive strain on your relationship and dull any sex life

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