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writes: My girlfriend Kirsty has a few "friends" (male) that she had a thing with, right up to the point that i asked her out. She recently told me that she wants to spend some time with one of them as he's joining the army soon. I dont want to accuse her of anything but i dont like the sound of it. Especially as i work full time and she goes to college part-time! I used to rely on my size to deter people from her (being 6"5" 235lbs) but i don't know what to do, any help would be nice! thankyou so much everyone. Reply to this Question
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reader, missmeliss0627 +, writes (15 February 2006):
Do you trust her? Has she given you any reason not to trust her? If she hasn't then keep your mouth shut. If you get jealous for no reason that will only push her away. Let her spend some time with her friend, this could be the last time she ever sees him (GOD forbid), and if you give her a hard time about it and he doesn't come back, she'll resent you for it. If you want to keep your girlfriend and keep her happy then trust her, at least untill she gives you a reason not to. It is very possible for women to be just friends with someone they had a thing with. She's with you now, dont mess it up
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