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Is it right for me to help my unemployed boyfriend financially?

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Question - (4 October 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 4 October 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I love my boyfriend and i really want to be with him but he does not have a job i feel like as a girlfriend i should have his back and help him as much as i can but i dont want to be taken advantage of he has not asked me for any money or any help but i feel obligated to help him

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (4 October 2009):

Just be there as a girlfriend and shoulder. Don't be there as a cash dispenser. It's great that you want to help him, but help him find a job, don't give him money.

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A male reader, niko465 United States +, writes (4 October 2009):

its great that you want to help him but just dont be there with money help him find a job or something to its great that you love him but dont let him think every time he needs 50 bucks your there to give it to him

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