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writes: Hello, I have been dating my girlfriend for over a month now, about to be 2 months. We don't see each other alot, the most is 3 times a week and the least would be 1. She has alot of guy friends, like alot. She hangs out with them everynow and then, but what i realize is that 2 of them like her but shes to oblivious to see it, she calims they do not like her but being a guy its pretty damn obvious to us, and i'm not the type of person to say "o stop haning out with your friend" thats just being overly protective. But i can't stop but feel insecure, she is having a small gathering tomorrow and her friend who is like the only girl might not be going, and the 2 guys that like her are defintly going, along with 2 other guy friends. So basically she is having a hangout with basically all guys. I can't make it because i have somewhere else i have to be which i would rather be with her. Should i feel insecure? She isen't the type to cheat but she really dosen't kno what flirting really is. Like I would feel very unhappy if i heard she was hitting on the guys, EVEN if she didn't know. One time she was flirting with one of the guys she likes and she didn't even kno.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2008): i know what this feeling is like, and its not wrong to feel insecure were only human after all we cant help what we feel. Ive also been in the same situation where the girl has loads of guy mates and is "close" with them, just don't over blow the situation just remember in your head that she is with you not them, she chose to be with you ok!have you thought about bringing this subject up with her? if u are going to tell her tell how u feel exactly! honesty is always the key, if she truly likes u she will understand. it does not mean she will stop with the whole guy mates thing, but you will feel so much better with it being out in the open between you to, like a weight being lifted of u shoulders.remember! honesty is key!!!hope this helps
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