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writes:This is kind of hard to explain and a little confusing, but hopefully you'll get the drift...I dated a guy for a year and three months; I met this particular guy about a month after I met another guy. I liked this "another" guy before I even met the one I dated. Then the guy I dated for over a year and I broke up for about four months and I went out with the "another" guy for three months. I'm now back with the guy I dated before and we've been together for almost a month this time, but I'm once again developing feelings for the "another" guy. We'll be going to the same college starting in just about three weeks and the guy I dated/am dating will be a senior in high school. Now, this whole situation has some more smaller, but complicated details, but I figure they're irrelevant.Is it possible to have two "loves" in your life instead of just one? And mainly, what should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWe are dating exclusively, I'm not one to date around; in fact, I don't think too highly of those who do date around. It's just really confusing and I wish I could literally wish them both away. Have a fresh start with fresh feelings and just not be so "stuck". I mean, I'm SO glad they both entered my life, but at the same time, the timing kind of screwed me over. Know what I mean?
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reader, PeterPan +, writes (25 July 2008):
 First question is are you dating exclusively? If the answer is no, then it seems that you're free and clear to do anything you want... with the added caveat that he can do the same. If this is something you haven't discussed with either one of the guys, then it's something you should consider. If you are exclusively dating then it seems like you're in a bit of whirlpool here. Racing back and forth between two guys.
Yes, it's possible to have two loves... just tricky and hurtful if you do it behind somebody's back...
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