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writes:helloi m 22 years old and i have a boyfrnd, he is also of 22. we had just oral sex. he wants to come more closer i mean anal sex. i want too but i have some problems.we r not sure that we will merry or not, we want to but depends on circumstances. if i had sex , my hymen will get broken and the guy whom will i get married he will come to know. it may effect our relationship.is it possible to have sex without breaking hymen?? does it hurts and bleeds after having sex for first time?? how do i know that my body is ready or not??is it possibility of getting pregnent even if he use condom??
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reader, amzdmz  +, writes (18 January 2011):
yes. it is not possible to have intercourse w/out damaging the hymen. but you two can enjoy anal sex. first it hurt little but later both you can enjoy very much. coz me and my GF follow the same. coz we will not know we will get a chance to marry in the future and if not my GF will have to answer to her future husband.this is a cultural issue and use condoms when having anal sex.
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reader, SirenaBlusera  +, writes (28 December 2010):
 Condoms definitely provide SOME protection, but ABSTINENCE from sex is the only way to guarantee, 100%, that you won´t get pregnant.
You lose your virginity when you have sexual intercourse. Ocassionally a woman is born without a hymen, and it can also tear from certain sports like horseback riding. However, you are a virgin until you have sex (with a penis). Once you´ve had intercourse you´re no longer a virgin.
It would be very difficult to have sex without rupturing the hymen. If you´re not sure about this guy, please wait! Your virginity can´t be recalimed once you give it up.
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