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writes:Is it possible to feel or have a chemistry with the person of the opposite sex that is not about romance but friendship? I feel a special sort of instant bond and connection with this guy but he's not the person I'd want to date. He's also several years younger than me and I enjoy his company but that's it. Reply to this Question
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (11 February 2012):
 Sure... one of my bestest buddies is a young man who I'm old enough to be his mother...I am 51 to his 29... we have such fun together at work... I love his wife... but we have a great chemistry....
my question is to you... is there a reason that you have put him in the friend zone....(like his age???)
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (10 February 2012):
 Obviously yes. You've got a good chemistry with this guy, but you are not romantically interested in him. You aren't forced to date everyone you have good chemistry with you know, that's entirely up to you to decide.
I've got good chemistry with tons of people that I wouldn't want to date. The thing is just that you need to be careful not to lead them on. With good chemistry, often one part will mistake this for romantic interest from your side. So be careful to not be too eager, and avoid use of words that can be misleading.
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