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writes:is is possible for two people who know of each other by only hi and hello for two years can talk one night and fall in love with each-other? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2007): Yes, it is possible to fall in love in one night. I have done it, on three occasions no less. One girl I remained friends with for many years but never dated, another I went out with for 2 years and loved her more passionately than anyone else in my life. The third was just one conversation, one night, but those feelings were there.
One thing to think about is that love is the real nature of our existance. Our ability to love even one person is an indication that love for anyone is possible, and that on some levels we should probably love everyone, in terms of human brotherhood and compassion. This does not mean you should fall in love with everyone, or choose to date anyone, even if you have fallen in love. Most important is to recognise the great value of experience of love, and to be grateful for that, how ever long it lasts.
Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2007): No. You have fallen in love with an idea of him; with a fantasy. You said no more than "hello" to one another for two years, then meet and have a long talk. Bound to be exciting to have the opportunity to actually have a conversation finally, but you really don't know anything about one another.
Just enjoy what may be a beginning to getting to know one another, and see if it develops into a relationship, and if so, how compatible are the two of you - or not. Only when you really know one another, "warts and all" as the saying goes, and still want to be together will you be able to say you have fallen in love.
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reader, Cateyes +, writes (21 February 2007):
 I think when two people meet, if there is an attraction between the two, a bond can immediately form. However, I also think that no matter what, you should take plenty of time in getting to know any one person. You can't find out everything there is to know about a person in one night. You can have a lot of fun and enjoy their company, but I would take time in getting to know him and let that time be your judgement. Never rush things. You will know after really getting to know him if you are REALLY in love. Again, just take your time, but have fun most of all in getting to really know him. Hope it works out for you and best of luck.
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