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female
age
30-35,
*aeMay
writes:Ive been dating this guy for almost seven months and i know that its not a long time but i feel like i can really last with him. Ive dated a lot of guys before and they all used me for drugs and sex and they nevere respect4ed me. but my current boyfriend actually helped me quit drugs and cutting and drinking and smoking. Hes NEVER hit me like every other boyfriend Ive had and hes always respectful. He always does things for me whenever I need him the most.I really think I love him but people just say its because Im a teenager. But ive dated many different people and I think Im sure that hes the one for me. Of course Im only a freshman and Im still young but Im hoping that this guy can be the one because hes the person everyone dreams of. Everytime I go online and look at quotes that describe the perfect guy, he is the root word to the definition.I used to date for looks but I decided to grow up and I just see something that attracte me to him even though hes not the cutest guy. We will argue sometimes but we really never fought before. We used to when I was doing drugs and stuff but after I became healthier we never really fight anymore. And our relationship isnt the type where we break up eighty times and keep dating. We have never even thought about breaking up. His parents and I are pretty close and they like me. They also have big almost impossible values about drugs sex and drinking and cutting but they still think that im a great person.So do you think that I might have found my soulmate?
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reader, niki20 +, writes (29 April 2009):
 soulmates a big word for hoghschool. i think ypu could be in puppy love. minor love w/a big connection w/someone. love is more complicated and difficult then you could ever imagine. people grow and change, and its hard to keep away from temtation at such a young age. the relationship has to have room to grow no matter what stage you are in. believe in your relationship and you could last a long time.
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