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writes:I really don't like asking this. I'm 15 yrs old, and I would talk to my mom about it, but I'm not completely sure and I don't need her getting freaked out. so on the 15th of July my boyfriend and I were messing around. I remember touching the tip of his penis, it was moist but I licked my fingers afterwards. It wasn't that much at all, just a little wet, I didn't think that much of it. then we made out for a while and Im pretty sure I touched myself with the same hand, I didn't stick anything in though just kind of rubbed the outside, im almost positive it was dry, and positive he never touched his penis before he started fingering me, but then he started going down on me. thats all we did. we've never had sex before and this was the first time he fingerd me. after he did it, I got this weird cramping in my stomach. I'm terrified, could that little bit of precome gotten me pregnant? it's weird though, because the next day I got my period, I wasn't expecting it, it was maybe a week early, a little heavier than usual and only lasted about 4 days. since then my stomach has been feeling so strange, sometimes i get this really bad cramping which i've never gotten before. im a little gassy which i never am, my back aches, alot of my muscles are sore, and my breasts are so tender, they feel and even look a little different. I've NEVER had tender breasts. these can't be related to my period because they started right AFTER my period ended. sometimes I feel like i am making myself sick whenever I think about it, i know that its unlikely that i am but i have trouble sleeping, it is always on my mind. whenever im not thinking about it, i feel a little better though, but im still paranoid, and scared to death. Should I just until next month and see if I get my period or not? what if I dont? im always a little irregular though. AND if im not pregnant why do I feel this way? could I just be paranoid because im becoming sexually active for the first time? thanks in advance and im sorry this is so long.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2010): You'd be very unlucky hun to end up pregnant after that session! Don't worry about it... At 15, your body is changing a lot anyway, and you won't always have regular periods. I think you are being a little paranoid.
If you really want to put your fears to rest, get a home pregnancy test kit.
Now smile and get a good night's sleep!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2010): You're not pregnant. It's virtually impossible to become pregnant that way. Furthermore, before you become sexually active you need to take responsibility and look up the facts about contraception, pregnancy and sex.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2010): Hi not to be rude, but i think this lad has just popped "your cherry" in other words. which of once being your age am sure you may understand that term? if you are unsure about being pregnant go to a shop and buy a pregnancy test the sooner the better your'll know. Good luck.
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