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writes: hello all i want your ideas, me and my boyfriend have too many differences, different religons, different likes,different ideas on life, we hardly spend time together although were in the same house living together, my question is isn it possible for a relationship like ours to prosper, i think im at a stage where i want to leave but i dont want to make a mistake ive made so many Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 October 2006): could u imagine how boring a relationship would be if u both liked the same everything, and were so closely alike. having interest of ur own is what makes a relationship stronger, personality clashes is ok. if u and ur spouse are ment to be then having nothing in common is ok and everything will be fine. besides look at this way, do u both like sex, food, tv shows etc ect. if u do then u somethings in common. dont worry everything will be fine and if u have disagreements work it out. every relationship has its problems and no relationship is perfect.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 October 2006): I wouldn't say it's absolutely possible that your type of relationship may prosper, because through experiences from friends and even myself, this is a difficult thing to keep intact.
Yes, opposites may attract, but it's keeping the relationship together that may be difficult.
The whole game of dating is all about trial and error. There is no such thing as dating for an absolute relationship. It's a life-long journey, length of time in a relationship is held together by emotional attachment to history, but in reality, that can also be a huge obstacle in achieving self-preservation and self-happiness and knowledge-seeking.
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