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writes:Ok, so this is kind of an embarrassing question, but here goes.I've heard that for a female, the first few times she has sex, she won't necessarily orgasm.But what I was wondering, was if you were to have your first time with someone you were truly in love with (married or not), if the feeling of that love would be intense enough to bring you to orgasm? I know I probably sound like the stupidest person on the planet right now, but this thought crossed my mind once and I just wanted to know.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you everyone!!! This helped clear it up.
And yes, it is definitely out of complete curiosity. I just always hear people say that females usually never orgasm the first time, and I wanted to know. :) I am 15, and I'll be 16 on the 23rd, and am going into junior year, I am definitely not having sex! But thanks for the concern, haha. :) And once again, thank you for the answers!! I didn't expect this much, because I assume I'm not the only one that's uncomfortable about this kind of stuff. Haha. But thank you!!!!! Mucho amor. :) xoxo
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2010): Love and being comfortable with the person will help but that's not going to guarantee you an orgasm. It all has to do with how well you and he know your body. You have to be aroused enough to have one in the first place and that starts in your head. Then you need lots of foreplay to get you really revved up but as I hope you know MOST women do NOT orgasm from penetration alone they need clitoral stimulation. And if this boy is doing his job that should all happen before you have any penetration. He should help you to achieve at least one orgasm before hand, that will make it easier on you as far as pain goes, but it could also help you to have another orgasm from sex. Final note, you seem a bit young for sex so I truly hope this is just curiosity and you're going to wait til you're older to actually have sex. It will be MUCH better if you wait a little while too, once your body matures and your mind because most young girl and boys don't know enough to have good sex anyway.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2010): Yes, This is very possible, I know this from experience!
You have a greater chance of orgasming if you have a more experienced partner or even one that is just "good". sometimes stimulating the Gspot or the clitoris will help with orgasms
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reader, cocoqueen88 +, writes (12 August 2010):
 it's really not a stupid question.
I think it's possible but a very slim chance unless the female knows her body before she has sex. however I think her chances go up if her partner is experienced and knows what it takes to get her there.
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