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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2011): If it's a close friend and you meet a girl and tell her about it and you're still friends with the girl that gave you the bj then she will mind,unless you stopped talking to the girl who gave you the bj because then it wouldn't be so bad.
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reader, Joyfulguy90  +, writes (25 October 2011):
Joyfulguy90 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIts just a thought I had, I doubt I will actually do it. I was just wondering about a females perspective. Master baiting gets real boring so my mind just wonders and. And I can tell you that there is only one way to master bait us guys are not like you ladies.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (25 October 2011):
 If you believe in sex being a casual thing, then go for it.
I'm from an older generation/different "school" and I just don't get how anyone bothers with sex without meaning. If the urge is that great.. well then there are plenty of way to self-please.
I understand the curiosity and the "want" to experiment, but ultimately it comes down to how you look at sex. And yes, a blowjob is a sexual act.
As long as you can accept that any potential girl you might want to date in the future felt the same way and did the same things.
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reader, xTheAlmightyDuckx  +, writes (25 October 2011):
 Okay, well i gusse if it is a close friend then it isn't as bad, and as i said dw too much as loads of people have a past and i am sure most girls would not be bothered by it (it would only be abit tacky if it was an complete stranger or someone you just met)
Take into concideration though if she does give you a blowjob will it lead to something else and how can you be sure it won't? will she want something in return? also be safe and even if your pretty sure nothing will happen take a condom just incase.
Hope this helps.
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reader, Joyfulguy90 +, writes (24 October 2011):
Joyfulguy90 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWhat about if its someone I know real well would that be okay? I really would prefer to wait for a relationship bu tI can feel that its gonna be years before im in a real one.
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reader, xTheAlmightyDuckx +, writes (24 October 2011):
I can tell you that the expierence will be alot more enjoyable and comfortable if you get a blow job off someone who your in a relotionship with but i can understand that is just a matter of waiting for the right person to come along.
I do agree with HoneyPie if i had a bf and he told me he got his first blowjob from a stranger it would come across as abit tacky but after all no ones perfect and everyone has a past.
But i can say if my bf told me that i guess i would kind of think it was a little bit cheap but it really wouldn't bother me that much and wouldn't affect our relotionship in anyway.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2011): Believe me you won't be a girls first at anything at 21.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (24 October 2011):
Would it be ok if your potential GF GAVE another guy a blowjob before she met you?
I think you need to figure out your priorities. Either you want a GF and do the "firsts" with her, or you want to experiment. You can't really have both.
Though I never found it upsetting to date someone who had a past, but.. I would find it a little .. um.. tacky? for a guy to just let anyone give them a blowjob.
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