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Is it ok to want to have sex with an older woman?

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Question - (10 February 2022) 5 Answers - (Newest, 15 February 2022)
A male Germany age 22-25, anonymous writes:

I met great woman the other day. She is single. I've already gone out with her a couple of times and want to see her again. our conversations are fun and exciting and have lasted for hours on end. we've even talked about sex. I find I want to have sex with her. The only thing is that she's 35 and I'm 22. She also has a 10 year old boy. I've tried to talk myself out of this, but I'm attracted to her. I guess I prefer mature woman and I like her.

I guess I'm just curious to know what others think about my situation. Is this even worth continuing? Is it ok to want sex with her and how to go about that?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2022):

My first apartment alone I had this gorgeous neighbor. She was 42, I'm 22. Divorced, she had a daughter 18. We'd flirt at the mail boxes in a way my buddy's Mom would in high school. Unlike you I had to have her. The taboo factor drove me. After a year of hitting on her she agreed to pizza and beer at my place. After kissing "we're not going to have sex -- forget it -- your Mom would kill me." 3rd Pizza was the charm. She was terrific in bed -- I had to pinch myself that I wasn't dreaming. Every older guy here wanted her, and here I am fucking her. we're probably going to hell.

Beware, it started as FWB -- but she fell hard for me.

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A male reader, Cheesesticks27 United States +, writes (13 February 2022):

There’s nothing wrong with having sex with an older woman. The main things that you need to consider are the long-term implications of a serious relationship with her. For example, are you okay with raising a child that isn’t your own? If I were in your position, that would probably be my main concern. Hope this helps homie.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2022):

I think it’s good mane, you just gotta ask yourself if you’re alright with raising a child that isn’t your own. By the sounds of it you’d be willing to take your relationship with her seriously so you need to consider the long term implications of that. There’s nothing wrong with having sex with an older woman. Hope this helps and hope you have fun homie.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2022):

Mature women usually prefer mature men, and men who have some substance, offering more than a laugh, chat and sex. If you can offer her all that go for it. If you are living in a rented room, got debt, problems, no decent job I doubt she will be interested, she can easily get a guy who has all that.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2022):

Mature women usually prefer mature men, and men who have some substance, offering more than a laugh, chat and sex. If you can offer her all that go for it. If you are living in a rented room, got debt, problems, no decent job I doubt she will be interested, she can easily get a guy who has all that.

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