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Is it ok for me to seek attention from other men if my husband watches porn?

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Question - (5 July 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 5 July 2009)
A female Argentina age 41-50, anonymous writes:

This qwuestion is in relation to another asked on DC. Is it ok for me to seek attention from other men if my husband watches porn?

I mean dressing provocatively and flirting just to get stares and compliments..

after all my husband enjoys the novelty of looking at other women in porn...he can no longer show me that level of novelty...after all, he's seen me millions of times. (yes in lingerie and all the rest) yet a man who isnt married to me shows the arousal and newness that my husband shows over the women in porn.

is it wrong for me to wenjoy this.After talking to a couple of girlfriend they say they dp the same ....the looks of intrigue and newness our men have for a new women in porn we can only get from a another man.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2009):

guys who do porn are all stupid and insensitive and dont know how to truly love and appreciate their partner/gf/wife.

girls who are ok with it are probably insecure and feel they have to be ok with it because they dont feel they are good enough when really everyone deserves to be loved by someone fully.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2009):

I know this question very well. The difference between this question and the other is that the OP idea of revenge is to engage is actual dating.

What you are thinking of doing is by far normal and in my opinion healthy. I think even causing your lover to feel a little jealous is cute and can spice things up a bit. And yes I know women that do this as well. It is that little temptation of "look at me but you can't touch".

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