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writes:Hey, so I like this guy, a lot. Think i'm in love with him; have been for about a year and a half now. Things are okay with him, but he's just a friend. But I think I may also have feelings for someone else too ... In some ways I stand more of a chance with this guy, but then again, in some ways, I don't, because of certain issues. But the thing is, I feel like a total slut, and a 2-timer! Is this normal? To have mixed emotions, I mean? Are there others who have been through this? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2016): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you, @ Aunt Honesty, this has made me feel better. And @Serpico thank you for your deep answer. I'm sorry if that was something that happened to you or your partner. I will keep you in my prayers.
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reader, Serpico  +, writes (23 January 2016):
What love is not - Thinking about someone all the time.Picturing your life with them.Getting butterflies in your stomach when they're around.What love is -Carrying your spouse to the toilet and wiping their behinds three times a day for sixty years after a horrific car accident took away their ability to walk.Just something to keep in mind.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (21 January 2016):
 No off course it doesn't make you a slut. You are a teenage girl with mixed emotions. Perfectly normal. You are growing up in to a young lady and you are experiencing feeling for guys. That's completely normal. It is okay to like two people at the same time. Probably for different reasons. You are not actually dating either off these guys so you are doing nothing wrong at all. At your age your hormones are all over the place so it is okay to have feelings for a few different people at the same time, as long as you don't hurt or lie to anyone then it is all part of growing up.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2016): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks, WiseOwlE its just, I've been trying to move on from the first guy, but I always go back to him. I dont really flirt, because I'm too shy. I just ha{ mixed emotions, so i don't thin i really like that second guy. but i think i am in love with the first one. And I'm 15, btw.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2016): You're between 13-15 years old!!! How much of a slut and two-timer can someone your age be? You're too young to know what romantic-love is; because you're barely out of puberty?
Your young mind has a long way to go, to know what love is. outside of loving your family. It's that complicated!
People several times your age are still working at figuring it out.
You are fond of a boy, and you like somebody else. There is nothing slutty about that. If you are flirty with both at the same time, but being sneaky about it. Then you're dishonest, and it will comeback to bite you. What goes around comes around.
If yout feelings are wearing off the first guy?
Surprise!!! That's normal! You're still a kid! That's very much allowed! Just don't hurt people's feelings by making them like you, only to change your mind! That's mean, not slutty!
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