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writes:I really loved this girl with an unexplainable love (at least to me). I didn't even think she noticed, however I did signal it to her one day and she noticed. She wasn't frightened, she wasn't angry or concerned. It seems she liked it. So we were friends for awhile and I finally had found the courage to ask her out (which was extremely difficult for me at the time, I mean, when I asked her I was almost shaking). Well, the day I did she smiled...but then walked away. I was concerned. The next couple of days after I figured she was thinking about it, she told her friend to tell me what she said. I know one of her friends really good. And he said - She said "No". Now for some reason I haven't been able to get over this for 7-8 months on end. When I ask some of my friends who are girls they usually say, you'll get over it. However, I'm finding it very hard to do so. My question is, is it normal to be broken for 8 months because somebody refused to be your girlfriend? Reply to this Question
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (4 August 2007):
 I don't like the word "normal". Let's use "usual" instead. So, it is usual, but it's not advisable for you. You received a "no" for an answer, and that hasn't changed in eight months. That is not going to change. I think you'd be unusual if you didn't feel pain
However, what you need to do is, think of other people and prepare to a life without her, like you've been doing quite successfully.
Take care
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2007): Well it obviously hurt you a lot. if you were shaking at the time you must have been pretty darn nervous and then for her to get her friend to tell you instead of telling you herself! Was she really worth it? I think your just finding it hard because it had a big impact on you but i wouldnt worry because she seems evil to have rejected you like that. Just give it time and im sure you'll find another gal. good luck =DXxXxX
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