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Is it normal to be friends with an ex, to send her messages, etc?

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Question - (22 August 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 22 August 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Should I be worried or is it nothing, but is it normal to be friends with your ex and when I say friends I don't mean when you see them in the street you just say hi I mean like emailing via msn or texting each other?

My boyfriend said he was friends with his ex of like 6 years and I said I was fine with it as they had been through alot together, but now it seems he's friends with another ex.

I feel a little worried but I don't know if that's a jealous streak but I'm not a jealous person.

Please help!!!!

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A female reader, Befuddled1 United Kingdom +, writes (22 August 2008):

Befuddled1 agony auntI wouldn't like it either girl, they were close once and it is bound to make you feel uneasy.

But what can you do? He is allowed to speak to whomever he likes and so are you.

On the upside....if they were that close wouldn't they still be together?

on the other hand if you want to be semi-sneaky...

make friends with his ex's too...keep your friends close and your enemies closer

:0)

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A female reader, thatgothgirl20 United States +, writes (22 August 2008):

thatgothgirl20 agony auntMy bf had a lot of ex's. We're married now. You are his gf. Try not to worry about it, and if you do worry about it, it is okay to ask him questions like, "Do you still have feelings for her? etc." He should answer your questions willingly, but if he gets very defensive, then it is time to be suspicious.

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A female reader, hlskitten United Kingdom +, writes (22 August 2008):

hlskitten agony auntYes i think it happens. But usually when one moves on, the txt etc slow down a fair bit. Thats life.

C xxxx

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