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writes:To be honest I'm not sure this will help but good to get it off my chest even if abuse is likely to be forthcoming.I am married and have been in love with a married man for 4 years. Nothing much has happened but he told me that he loved me but wouldn't leave his wife. 4 months ago he changed his mind after I had told my husband I was in love with someone else and we had put heart and soul into trying to make things work.The problem now: the man I love with my heart and soul is now free and saying that his marriage is over. I however have rebuilt things with my husband - they are far from perfect but they are ok - we're good friends with the same goals and values - something that after many years is surely more important??I guess the question is if you still love someone so strongly after so long despite it being so wrong is there any possibility it could be meant to be or is that just romantic nonsense??
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2008): I agree with teacake. Your husband is reality, the other man you are attracted to but that's not enough to make a successful relationship.
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reader, Teacake +, writes (20 November 2008):
 Passion aside, which man do you see in reality being at your side in 20 years from now?
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