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writes:I have a friend who i've been close with for about a year now. But i have always had feelings for him. And i'm also pretty sure he's got the same feelings for me. I never told him this because there are a lot of complicated reasons that makes it impossible for us to be with each other. I have decided that i will try to get over him and that the best way of doing this is to meet someone else. And this weekend me and my friend were at the same party and so was one of his closest friends whom i never met before. I started to talk a lot with this guy and we had a lot in common. Unfortunately, he had to leave early because he had to get up and work the next morning so nothing happend between us. We never exchanged numbers or Facebook or anything. So what i am wondering is; is it mean to ask my friend for this guy's number? Because i don't want to hurt him but i really want to see and talk to this guy again!
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (18 March 2013):
 if you and the new guy are both facebook friends with the old guy you can find him on your friend's facebook friends list and contact him that way if you are interested.
I just can't help but wonder if you like your old friend as more than a friend and he feels the same why why your complications keep you apart but would enable you to be with his friend....
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (18 March 2013):
 If you can't be with the friend for whatever mysterious reason, presumably your friend is fully aware of the problems as well. So if there's no chance ever ever ever in the entire world for you to be together, then I think it's fine to ask him for the other guy's number.
If your friend is a realist he'll understand. If he's really a friend, he'd want you to be happy.
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