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writes: I have a slight problem.... Some reason, i get along with guys more often then other women. Im not a huge fan of attention; i hate being babied when im hurt. Im not trying to cause a problem or anything, i mean i would be talking to a guy then along comes one of his girl friends....and she keeps telling me to leave, so im left thinking wtf....you know? Over half of my guy friends like me, they've told me too.... Is it just me or is it the other girls? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI dont get very flirty.... I have some girl friends but they're in mid, late 20s..... Idont dress to impress, im not like that.
Thank you though......
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (8 November 2008):
Well if over half your guy friends like you then you are obviously a bit flirty.
If you are a girl in a group and you are just one of the guys then they tend not to see you in that way.
If you are the girl in the group that all the guys want to have sex with then you are going to get a reputation with all the other girls as something not good.
You can't have it both ways and be the girl that all the boys want and have all the girls like you.
Either back off and dress down and get some girl friends, or put up with the fact you will be seen as a threat.
Good Luck!! xx
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