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male
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi, i have been with my girlfriend for nearly a year, and we used to have sex on a regular basis (she had many sexual boyfriends before me),i dont live with her as yet. We do talk alot about kids and moving in with eachother in the future, anyways, we used to have sex atleast twice a day when we 1st got with eachother, the only problem is, she usually forgot to take her pill, so she recomended she have the injection so she cant get pregnant for 3 years, so i thought good, no more condoms (:)) but ever since she had it shes lost all interest in sex, im 21 and shes 17, we should have an active sex life, but we havent. Is it me or her? what am i doing wrong. i have talked about it and she blames the injection, i cant even touch her boobs without her telling me to stop. she says she loves me, but i sometimes feel lonley and unloved. and most of the time i mention sex, she calls me a sex addict! She now wants the injection out, so im hoping this will relight our fire! But what if it dont?Hope someone can help me!
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reader, Tee Bird +, writes (23 October 2007):
 Hi. I appreciate you want to make love to your girlfriend! I know it can be frustrating but your girlfriend needs to know that u love her no matter wot, even if she's not feeling up for it! It sounds to me like the side effects of her injection has resulted in her losing her sexual libido,which is SO common so maybe her decision to stop it is for the best. Things will probably go back to normal and at least then she might remember and appreciate that you DIDN'T pressure her into having sex when she wasn't up for it xx
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reader, sexi  +, writes (23 October 2007):
 Hi
You should speak to a doctor and ask him the effects of the injection. If it is the injection then things should sort themselves out once she has it undone. If it isnt the injection then you should speak to your gf and i am sure if you are gentle and calm enough then she should understand. You can also seek professional help ie ( speak to a sex therapist together.)
Regards,mail me if you wanna talk
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