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*raggon
writes:hi i have a turkish bf and he says he loves me everyday and i love him and he has asked me several times to marry him i am suppose to be going over there in november to be with him and he wants us to get married then but i have not got a clue how to go about it he lives in turkey i live in england anyone got any ideas xxx Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2010): if you decide to go to Turkey sure go, but please make sure your passport is always with you, just in case you would like to go back, and he would not let you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2007): i have to say if he makes you happy - then go for it. So what if it doesn't work out you have a passport & can come home. He could be the love of your life & u would never know. I have a turkish bf & have been happily accepted by his family & friends. Maybe they do want a better life & a visa but it doesn't mean they don't love u too!! Go for it girl. Maye we'll see u out there. If you're in adana we'll see u sometime.
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reader, desirewhitefire  +, writes (23 October 2007):
 Think of the reason he won't come to the UK. Does he have one other than he just doesn't like it there or he can't afford to come there? If he doesn't, then you need to move on. The people in that area of the world look at women and marriage a lot different than Europeans and Americans. Please trust me, it's not a good idea. My ex's family came from that area and they hated me, treated me like dirt, and accused me of stealing from them. You will not be accepted into this country because you are not one of them. There is a lot of violence coming out of that country, there always has been. You need to stay away and find someone different. And don't think you won't find anyone else, and don't feed off of him telling you he loves you. You would be a possession, not a human being and his equal.
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reader, draggon +, writes (23 October 2007):
draggon is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni have been with him for 2 years he knows i not got any money and he dont want to come to uk he has made that clear on several occasions but he would come for a visit
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2007): The only advice you need is: DON'T MARRY HIM!!!!
No matter what they tell you or say to you they are all only after 2 things!!! Your money and a visa!! Once they get those, they don't give a damn about you and you will soon see a totally different side to them once the money dries up!!!
If you have any respect for yourself you won't do it!
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