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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:There is this guy at my ice rink who always keeps on looking at me, he would always skate in front of me, always look behind him whenever i was behind and always when im sitting down he would look at me. Even when he is with his girlfriend like hugging and kissing him, he would be looking at me. Ive even caught him staring and me whenever i turn around, his good looking and seems like a great guy but i dont want to go upto him and ask him what he is doing, because i will feel like a idiot. I`m starting to like him because i see him like every week with and without his girlfriend and he always seems to do it. Each time i`m seeing him, i`m falling for him even more, and when his with his girlfriend i feel jealous becauase i want to be her.I do think i`m starting to fall in love with him, but could be it be just lust.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 November 2008): This is certainly not Love the only thing you know of him is that he is gawping at you There are two reasons for this either he is looking for your reaction to him sort of saying "Hey Look at me"...flirting with you. Your reaction to watch back and the subliminal messages you are giving out says you're interested...that is OK if he is single but when in a relationship he should be reserving that for his girlfriend. It is OK noticing other girls or guys we all do it but we should not be entertaining and playing with those feelings, beacause someone invariably gets hurt. My advice is don't do anything, if he approaches you, ask about the girl he was/is with, otherwise enjoy the buzz
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (1 November 2008):
Well since you have never spoken to him I doubt it is love, you are just flattered that a boy seems to like you.
Remember that he is gawping at another girl in front of his girlfriend so he probably isn't a very nice guy.
Enjoy the self esteem boost and ignore him till he gets rid of the girlfriend and comes and talks to you.
Good Luck!! xx
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