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*nique-angel
writes:cutting it short i met a guy through the net. he was sweet and into me. we had some rough patch at beginning when going out. now we're good.but our only form of contact is msn or the phone. now he never has credit and doesn't come online only on weekends. he saving money for insurance and just got a job so i understand.. i said id ring him and stuff. jus still hardtxtd him sayin how dont talk much no more..he left me a msn messange saying how dont worry i wont forget u cause i can't and stuff...but just feels like he doesn't bother what should i do!he comes online rarely at weekends..never emails back or has credit. and i reallly like him
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reader, unique-angel +, writes (5 May 2009):
unique-angel is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwel he told me we have no future together,then told me how he loves me and misses me. this is all on the phone when we were talkin to eachother. he dissparead after that it became hard i felt hurt and confused he left me after saying all of that..now we're back to being friends but its obivous i've got feelings for him i just want him so badly. i told him delted his number cuz he never texts me and i end up texing him laods and getting no reply...he still hasn't txted me
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reader, unique-angel +, writes (13 March 2009):
unique-angel is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhe broke it off with me n msn but i was just tellin him where 2 go you were right guys. thanks! xxxxx
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reader, unique-angel +, writes (12 March 2009):
unique-angel is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks ppl well hes in london and im near wolverhampton..before talked about travllin down here but i said it wouldnt be possible yet as i've got exams coming up..but your right if he cared then he could try xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2009): He's not very considerate of you. No doubt he is trying to save money and is concentrating on his new job - very commendable in and of itself - BUT as happytochat points out, how long does it take to send an email, or pick up the phone for a brief chat? If he seriously wanted to meet you - if only for a bite of lunch, or cup of coffe, neither of which need cost much - he would make the time to pursue you.
In any case, would you be satisfied with no more than a phone call or email? and if so, for how long?
No, you deserve better than this. If he's so busy he can't find time to respond to a text or email from you, and basically fluffs you off with his "don't worry, I won't forget you"; why then, YOU don't have time to bother with him! That's the bottom line.......
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reader, happytochat  +, writes (12 March 2009):
Awww im sorry to hear this darling, but he sounds like a loser. I know to you, he doesnt seem like that, but as they say, 'love is blind'. You dont want to see his faults, so you arent seeing them. No decent guy would ignore you like that. It doesnt sound like he is putting in any effort at all. And you deserve a guy who will make an effort.
Fair enough if he needs to save moeny, but emails and msn are free. Mayeb hes busy? well it doesnt take that long to send a quick email...no excuses for his behaviour. Find a guy who treats you better.
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