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writes:I am in a relationship and have been for almost a year. Im 25 and he's 28. We don't call eachother boyfriend/girlfriend. We don't say I love you. We don't talk about a future together. He is the nicest guy and treats me bettter than any guys has. I am pertrified of losing him because I really enjoy spending time with him and he does make me happy and support me, but something is missing. I don't feel that special something I've felt with my ex boyfriends. I don't know whether this means it is just a more mature realistic relationship than my past ones or whether he simply is not the one. I love him, but am not in love with him. Is it fair to stay with him and hope this changes, or should I let him go?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2008): Well if you have been just a bit more then friends for all this time its no wonder that you feel this way. Instead of braking up it would be wise investigating why you too aren't boyfriend/girlfriend. Maybe that’s why you are missing. Tell him how you feel. If he loves you, he'll change. Good luck.
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reader, thatgothgirl20 +, writes (27 October 2008):
 Talk to him about these feelings and see if he feels the same.
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