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Is it because of my ex I have problems with my new guy?

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Question - (4 April 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 6 April 2008)
A female United States age 36-40, *weetheart03 writes:

I just got of a cheating relationship. I'm seeing a new guy and he tells me he's coming over after he does his homework....I think he's lieing...but he wasn't my friend dates his roommate and he as there the whole time doing his work. Today he said he was coming over he didn't say what time. I told him ill be home at 10:30 he said ok. At 11:30 he says are you home I said yeah its 12am and I'm pissed I just wanna cut him off!!! Is it because of my ex and his lies or what??? What can I do to give him a chance! I hate late people to me it shows he's doing something.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2008):

my ex-ex abandoned me to live abroad, and i was paranoid about my then-bf doing it, i was convinced that he wasnt going to stick around, but all the while i was pushing him away.

i got involved with another guy afterwards who two-timed me, so i then became convinced that a perfectly nice guy with girl friends, was two-timing me too!

it's happened to friends after theyve been with somebody whose cheated them, and its natural to feel like that, it's like when a dog is beaten- even if it gets a new owner, it still cowers whenever they raise their hand, if thats how you were treated before then thats what you come to expect of people, but the other answerer is right- not everybody cheats!

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