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writes:Hi guys. I have been in a relationship with an amazing girl for 2 andA half years and we are very happy apart from in the bedroom. We have great sex but it's always the same kind of thing and we never experiment or try something different. She always gets embarrassed when i try to try something a bit naughtier and then makesMe feel like a bit of a pervert for wanting to try something new. Also, she never ever initiates sex and i feel like I'm almost forcing her sometimes. Any thoughts? Reply to this Question
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reader, person12345  +, writes (22 July 2011):
 Hmmm well then my next guess is she is a bit embarrassed. You can try easing her into it. While she's already really aroused, she will probably be a lot more open minded. So really gradually over quite a few times, start dirty talking. Like don't say anything really over the top, just start by asking her to describe how she's feeling during sex and say it really turns you on to hear. Describe vague things at first, like feelings, then move on to adjectives (wet, hard, etc...) etc... Make sure she feels comfortable in every other way with whatever you're trying so you're not pushing too far too fast. Like low lights, in bed, maybe with some blankets at first (so she's not anxious about anything else).
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionShe does orgasm nearly every time and she seems to
Enjoy it but I would just like to do something out of the routine once in a while. Maybe some light dirty talk or something? I'm not trying to force her to do anything extreme, just a little out of the ordinary.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (22 July 2011):
Me first guesses would be either she has been taught that sex is dirty or that she just doesn't enjoy sex. Does your girlfriend always feel good from sex? Does she orgasm every or nearly every time?
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