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writes:During foreplay, is it bad to give your guy a bj but not finish (make him cum) bc you are so turned on that you just want him inside you. So you stop, and you start having sex. Is that a bad thing? is there some kind of rule when it comes to oral before sex for a man??? He has never said that he didnt like it, I was just curious.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2011): I love oral before intercourse, so no, it isn't important to finish him this way. Many guys love oral before intercourse. If he recharges and cums many times during sex, then maybe a pre-sex oral orgasm would be nice since he could still get it up and go again. If not, then maybe holding off on him cumming is better. Most guys like to go "round the world" during sex, so cumming from a BJ right off would spoil things for me.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (12 May 2011):
 as long as he finishes and you are satisfied as well then all is good
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (12 May 2011):
 Has he been complaining? If not then it's all good.
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reader, Gabrielle Stoker +, writes (12 May 2011):
 There's no 'rule', really. It depends on what works for the two of you. I like to let guys finish from oral, but then there are guys who don't want to finish that way as well. It's up to the individuals involved, really. If, like me, you love the feel of a cock on your tongue and the warm cum on your skin or filling your mouth, go ahead and finish him off. If not, don't. Matter of choice.
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reader, cupidus  +, writes (12 May 2011):
 It's a bad thing if you only give him a "heads up" to rise to the occasion without you receiving any stimulation.
He's ready, are you?
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reader, confusedgal1909 +, writes (12 May 2011):
you need to watch more porn... thats how its done LOL (jk).
Very normal... as long as you get him off thats all they care about :p
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (12 May 2011):
 That is not a bad thing at all if only stimulation is expected. If he expects or desires completion, and has thoroughly sexually satisfied you in advance, then that may be another matter.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2011): Nope, using a BJ as foreplay is 100% fine and quite normal. Now if every once and a while he wants to feel the pleasure of cumming in your mouth, that's a legitimate request he can make and that you should try to accommodate. If you're willing to please your partner (and we all should be, so long as the request is not unsafe) then treat him to that every once and a while... just don't forget to ask for something in return!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2011): I don't think there is a rule. It depends on the guy and I guess it depends on his mood. There have been times where I gave my bf a bj and finished. There have also been times where I stop mid bj and we start having sex.
Variety is the spice of life. So just keep things interesting. Sometimes finish with the bj. And sometimes just do what you want.
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