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writes:I have an ex-girlfriend, we haven't spoken for 2-3 months, she decided to ignore me for some reason.Anyways, she said her other exes never helped her when her Dad died, and in just a friendly capacity, I'd like to send her a card or something.There is a quote I saw, "Instead of saying is there anything I can do, just do something.". Initially I wanted to send a text, however maybe a card would be in keeping with that quote I think, decisive and showing who I am.Despite what may have turned her off, I try to be a gentleman, and on a human level, I know what it is like to lose a parent, and it would be nice if someone remembered the date, hence I'd like to do that for her.So now I'd like to have some advice from you kind people, first, is it a good idea or should I text her? Secondly, her Dad died 2 years ago, what type of card should I get, it'll be to her and her family if she wants to show them, but I don't want it to be too sad but also not too triumphant.Thank you.
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reader, Lucky786 +, writes (16 August 2011):
 Why do you want to do this? She doesn't want contact from you, she's made that obvious. Why would she want a card or text from you, her ex-boyfriend, on a very personal and maybe painful day for her?
If you're doing this just to get a response from her, don't.
If you're doing it as a friend, a plain card with a brief message will be fine.
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