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writes:I have this guy that says he likes me a lot, He lives about 400 miles away from me. He wants himself to be the only man in my life, and he says I'm his future wife. But he says the only reason that were not dating is because of our distance from each other. What is his deal? Why wouldn't he want to make it official? Could he be dating someone else? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 February 2008): HI.....Can I say this to you? Unlike a lot of other countries where transportation is difficult....400 miles is not a great distance for us here in the US. A train, airplane or even in a car is not that big of a deal to travel 400 miles. In my daily travels here in metro Washington DC, I travel on average 100 to 150 miles daily.
I also on a weekly basis used to travel to New York (5 hours) to see a girl and have traveled to Pennsylvania and New Jersey as well as Delaware to see females on a regular basis (weekly or twice weekly). I think what he is doing is playing on your mind. He's just trying to see how far you will go. I wouldn't waste my time with this dude. It's all up to you, but I just think he's trying to get into your pants and once he does...he will drop you like a hot potatoe and will not have to deal with you afterwards, because afterall....you're 400 miles away and what woman would come 400 miles to argue about an affair?
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (11 February 2008):
 Faith without works is dead. You can proclaim anything but it is meaningless when you don't do what you said.
It is just like a pledge and nothing more.Don't think he is serious about it.
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