A
female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hello, I am a black girl in my 30s and recently started to date an older white male. Hes a lovely guy, great, funny....however all his past girlfriends, and his ex wife have been oriental women. He was even going to move there at one point, and not only that he is really into the culture too. However, due to a new job he has become a loner of sorts. He has no parents, friend are all in different states and married, and no siblings. He goes to works,a nd hangs out at home alone. We met through craigslist, and since then have spent almost every day together; texting and having fun, and the sex is great. However...is he with me because he is lonely and cant get anyone else, or because he finds me attractive?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (11 March 2016):
 Okay so yes he is at a lonely stage in his life at the moment. So yes I can understand why you would feel a little insecure. You spend your days together, you have fun together, so this must mean good things? Do you feel he is only wanting sex and not a commitment? Follow your gut instinct, if he shows he cares, then believe in him. If he is not showing you that well then maybe your suspicions are right. I say follow your gut instinct.
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female
reader, WhenCowsAttack +, writes (11 March 2016):
I wouldn't worry too much about his past partners. It sounds like he genuinely likes you. Good sex, good talks, having fun.
I'd keep having fun and see where it goes. Nothing you have said raises any red flags for me.
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