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writes:Hello Cupid friends,My boyfriend are in a temporary long-distance relationship while we are away from each other for the summer. At the beginning of the summer, I immediately felt like he was more thrilled to have his own time by himself, and was looking forward to his alone time while I was trying to figure out ways that we could visit each other. We certainly did visit but when he came to visit me, it'd be for two, maybe three days and when I visited, he would pretty much ask me to leave after 4 days. We are in a good relationship and generally we have great communication skills and I completely trust him. I wanted to ask your opinions about this. It did hurt my feelings that he needed so much alone time. It makes me wonder what a real future with him would be like if we were to wed. Is this normal for couples? Reply to this Question
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reader, puchki123  +, writes (26 August 2012):
it might be natural.sometimes i dont feel lyk calling my boyfriend ,instead i play computer games.the same happens to him sometimes.we just need to be alone at certain times.but not quite often.sometimes distance can bring you closer.
but if he is doing everything else lyk going out with friends ,partying etc,then its definitely not right.
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