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*orah craig
writes:hi,me and my bf been fighting few months ago about me been over social, that i know too many guys. Lately we had a big fight about the same point,we worked it out some how , i changed my phone number and stop meeting other guys but my bf started to treat me so bad and carlessly as he stopped calling me for awhile and when he calls its only for few mins ,even when i ask him out he says he is busy.A week ago we dealt to go out then i sent him a msg asking him when he dropping by but he didn't reply me back n didnt call that day. The day after i sent him msg blaming him for ignoring me he didnt reply too ,called me the next day once i didn't call him then he didnt call back .Today was the valentine day he sent me a msg wishing me happy valentine and that he loves me and sent another msg but in a different way that i surely have reciecved too many msgs from other guys and he is sorry ,i sent him a msg telling him that i luv him but he didn't reply back ,do i have to call him? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2008): it seems to me hun your man is enjoying making you feel bad for knowing too meny men. even tho you think he is over this i don't think he truly is. he needs to learn to trust you and untill he does - you won't have a happy relationship. no man is worth waiting by the phone for -except your daddy you feel me. and believe me hun he did not give you life do not let him control it. carry on as if everything is normal, don't phone him, beleive me it feels better when they phone - your know they have missed ya. if he only talks for two mins - then let him, show him it don't bother you (even if it does)- that you have a life out side this relationship. but hun if this relationship is making you so miserable, and act in a way where you stop having self respect and self love then move on fast - coz you loose those precious things, then all men will walk over you good luck babe x
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reader, duskyrowe +, writes (14 February 2008):
 Men have a very blase attitude towards relationships. One minute they are all over you like a rash and the next they act like they don't care. Us women are constantly waiting for a call and a text like pining puppies waiting for their master.
I think if you take the similar approach and don't text or call him for a few days, as oppose to calling and texting them all the time he will soon come running to you with his tail between his legs. In the mean time go out and have fun, guys like to think that we have a life away from them and not revolve every waking moment around them. This freaks them out, trust me I am still learning at the tender age of 40.
My fella and I was on a break for a month, as he was working all the hours God sends and was unsure about his relationship with me. Suffice to say, he missed me like hell and vise versa and we are slowly working things through one day at a time. We rushed things to quickly in a short space of time and he gotten a little scared. Anyway enough about me, I really hope you guys can work through this together, if not there are plenty more fish in the ocean. Good luck Hun. Dusky xxx.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2008): I think this would be a good point to call him, yeah. But he doesn't seem to be treating you right honey, so if he doesn't answer, rise above it. Just think, right, if he wants to be childish, so be it. Personally, he doesn't deserve you. You seem to be keen to keep your relationship together, and he just isn't bothering. But to answer your question, I think you should give him a call :] but don't bother him too much if he doesn't answer. Just ask him tomorrow night or something why he wasn't answering, and that you're getting sick, and he needs to 'pull his socks up' :] good luck honey.
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